EMOTIONAL HANGOVER

To hide children’s faults knowingly is somehow dangerous in the long run. It makes them feel supported. Such attitude inspires them to carry on their mischief ,  because they think their misdemeanour  is justified. And this feeling is ultimately inculcated deep in their mind. It won’t be surprising if a certain child turns to a notorious one in the future.

The guardians or elders think that they are showing love and affection by hiding the fault. But they usually forget (or unaware of)  the hard fact. There is hair-breadth line between the affection and awareness.
If it gets unbalanced, the result might be disastrous. When such consequences come to fore, then the guardians are aghast.  Ultimately they have to put down their arms and compromise with the situation. The guardians and elder usually get in the illusion of love and affection. Without equating they fulfil the child’s just and unjust demands. Gradually they reach to the state of EMOTIONAL HANGOVER.  On the one hand, the child’s positivity should be encouraged, whereas the negativity  must be discouraged.
If such emotional hangover is not curbed at the right time and right place, it would obviously bring a hazardous consequence. Therefore, it is necessary to distinct between affection and admonish.

Agony Of A PARASITE

Undoubtedly a PARASITE has not its own space. Thinking about the position often fills with aghast. As a matter of fact, it is dependent on others. It has nothing to do on its own. It is quite obvious that the opinion of anyone regarding the parasite would be abnormal.
It is destined to absorb the humiliation and indifferent attitudes of the others, because there is no way out. Notwithstanding the feelings a parasite has have no space for it. It is meant totally handicapped despite having nerve. Indulgence is expected far off for from the parasite. In fact ,the matter is not absolutely as the dogma. It has emotions, vitality and significantly potency. But in the state it is those abilities simply drain away. Ultimately it is obviously taken for granted. Such is because the parasite is deprived of all the place it should have. Consequently all its qualities simply decay; and this process continues till it is finished.
Avtar Singh Pash, one of the radical poet of Punjab quoted that ’ Dying of the dreams is hazardous.’ It is applied, more or less in the same manner with the parasite. It never let one to breathe the liberty. Such state makes it appalled and subsequently it withers away.

Instill Trust, Not Hatred

Instead of dealing with any problem painstakingly and tactfully, the most people draw a conclusion. Subsequently form a opinion without observing it rationally. Such ways sometimes create a irreparable misunderstanding. It is regrettable fact that in such issues, the children are mostly targeted, and they get often confused in such circumstances.
It is often observed the children often fall in dilemma in such situations. They are mostly (mis)guided by hook or by crook to follow the directed way. The feeling of hatred develops in this course. The view of looking the other person’s action wrong is instilled in them. They are even pushed forcibly to follow it. In this course, the children often get oblivion of their child-like nature. Consequently the result is hazardous. Due to the adamant attitudes of the parents and guardians, the delicate threads of their minds are generally shattered. Moreover, the problem must be dealt patiently.
To replace the trust and affection, one should first try his/her best. Even then, if the end doesn’t meet it is better to take oneself away from the issue. One should leave the place, if needed.