To hide children’s faults knowingly is somehow dangerous in
the long run. It makes them feel supported. Such attitude inspires them to
carry on their mischief , because they
think their misdemeanour is justified.
And this feeling is ultimately inculcated deep in their mind. It won’t be
surprising if a certain child turns to a notorious one in the future.
The guardians or elders think that they are showing love and affection by
hiding the fault. But they usually forget (or unaware of) the hard fact. There is hair-breadth line
between the affection and awareness.
If it gets unbalanced, the result might be disastrous. When such consequences come to fore, then the guardians are aghast. Ultimately they have to put down their arms and compromise with the situation. The guardians and elder usually get in the illusion of love and affection. Without equating they fulfil the child’s just and unjust demands. Gradually they reach to the state of EMOTIONAL HANGOVER. On the one hand, the child’s positivity should be encouraged, whereas the negativity must be discouraged.
If such emotional hangover is not curbed at the right time and right place, it would obviously bring a hazardous consequence. Therefore, it is necessary to distinct between affection and admonish.
If it gets unbalanced, the result might be disastrous. When such consequences come to fore, then the guardians are aghast. Ultimately they have to put down their arms and compromise with the situation. The guardians and elder usually get in the illusion of love and affection. Without equating they fulfil the child’s just and unjust demands. Gradually they reach to the state of EMOTIONAL HANGOVER. On the one hand, the child’s positivity should be encouraged, whereas the negativity must be discouraged.
If such emotional hangover is not curbed at the right time and right place, it would obviously bring a hazardous consequence. Therefore, it is necessary to distinct between affection and admonish.
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